WEDDING TOAST BUILDER
Companion: https://yenra.com/wedding-toasts/
Write in your own voice. These prompts and the companion's fictional examples
are original editorial aids, not a requirement to use a particular script.

1. AGREE THE MOMENT
Speaker name and relationship to the couple:
Preferred names and pronunciations:
Host contact:
Place in the order of speakers:
Time available, including introduction and applause:
Microphone and seated/standing arrangement:
Person who will introduce you:

2. BUILD FOUR SHORT PARTS
Connection: one sentence explaining how you know the couple.

Observation: one small, kind example guests can understand without a long
backstory. Use something the couple is comfortable sharing in public.

Wish: one sincere hope for their life together.

Names: finish with a clear invitation to join the toast.

ORIGINAL FICTIONAL EXAMPLE (replace names and details honestly)
"I am Rowan, a friend of Alex and Sam. You make time for each other, even
on busy days. May that care stay with you through ordinary evenings and
great adventures. To Alex and Sam, with every good wish."

3. REVIEW BEFORE REHEARSING
Does the toast celebrate both people?
Would the couple welcome every detail in front of these guests?
Can a guest who does not know the story follow it?
Remove private information, former relationships, humiliating jokes and
stories that depend on someone being the target. Keep any humor affectionate.
Ask permission for a personal anecdote when unsure it is welcome.

4. PRACTICE ALOUD
Full spoken draft:

Timed practice, including pauses:
Sentence or anecdote to shorten if needed:
Final wish and names written clearly on a cue card:
Large-print copy or other access arrangement:
Backup copy held by:

5. ON THE DAY
Check with the host before your turn; check the microphone in advance.
Speak slowly enough to be understood, pause, and look toward the couple.
Guests may join with any drink or simply listen. No one needs to drink alcohol.
If you lose your place, return to your final wish and the couple's names.

Etiquette source: Emily Post, All About Toasting
https://emilypost.com/advice/all-about-toasting